Copulatory vocalization is healthy, bedroom noises do more than just make sex better

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Screams that wake up the neighbors, or maybe soft moans? It doesn’t matter when freedom of expression is involved. The louder and more willingly we express pleasure, the better, not only for the pleasure of sex, but also for the relationship.

Making noises of pleasure in the bedroom is nothing new. Giving in to emotions and the natural pleasure we get from sex, we want to express them through quiet or loud moaning. It turns out, however, that the sounds made by lovers in the bedroom can make the sensations during intercourse more intense, increase desire significantly, and make sex more interesting. Why is it like that?

Suppressing a scream doesn’t help. If we want to scream our partner’s name, just moan, or even make small noises, we should not suppress them. Copulatory vocalization is a form of dialogue between partners. Loud sex is also a guarantee for the partner that the person with whom he has it experiences pleasure and satisfaction from intercourse. Its absence or sudden disappearance may mean that the partner needs to change and adapt, searching for new solutions. We talked about it with Joanna Keszka from

Can loud sex really make it better?

“We’re all too inhibited in bed.” Instead of thinking about what gives us pleasure and what not, we wonder what is right for us, and making voices during sex is very important because it oxygenates us. When this happens, the blood circulates better and our private parts are more supplied with blood. On the other hand, when the vagina and clitoris are better supplied with blood, we have more pleasure from all the fun. In addition, when we make voices during sex, we give a signal to our partner that we feel good, that we like what we do together in bed, and this in turn positively stimulates the other party – says Joanna Keszka.

A partner who sees that we feel good with what he does in bed will repeat it during the next close-ups, avoid what did not make the other party moan with pleasure.

“A lot of people in the bedroom tense up, and screaming, making noises, moaning, all of that makes the body relax too. Sext is contact with the body, and if we want to feel good in it, it should be relaxed. If we are tense, we will lie down, we will not make any noises, then we take away a lot of pleasure from the very beginning, which we would experience naturally if we simply allowed ourselves more slack, more freedom, more of these sounds – admits the author

Don’t worry about the neighbors

– I always strongly encourage you to make sounds, not to worry so much about your neighbors. There is a beautiful saying that the sex was so good that even the neighbors had to smoke a cigarette. Let’s not worry so much. If someone feels embarrassed, it is enough to start with “oh, how good I am” and

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